Unprotected Sex

A one night stand, a new relationship, an affair, a troubled marriage. In all situations unprotected sex has happened with varied outcomes with each encounter. Most of the time when two people have unprotected sex the consequences are never considered. The percentage of so called responsible adults who engage in unprotected sex is very high. Some of us like to believe that only teenagers and young adults seem to engage in such behavior. Well we have all seen and heard about celebrities and prominent figures being involved in paternity suits.

This brings me to one of the reasons unprotected sex is not a good idea for unhappily married couples, unmarried people and people involved in affairs, young people,financially challenged people, immature irresponsible people the list goes on and on. Unplanned pregnancies, unwanted pregnancies, single parents, fatherless children, the break down of families, proverty and more.

Unprotected sex is never a good idea for people who are not in monogamous relationships.Sexually transmitted diseases are being passed on at alarming rates.The seriuosness of the diseases varies from infertility to life or death. This alone should prompt adults to think before they act on their sexual impulses. It is worth a second thought when you consider the consequences.

Unprotected sex is changing the societial makeup of the world. There are more and more single parent families which is not fair to the children.Children deserve to have two parents raise them whenever possible. When an adult does not take responsibilty for their actions because they just don't feel like it, everyone involved suffers especially when children are involved. When a parent male or female refuses to be involved in their childs life they are putting their child at a disadvantage.There are countless reasons it takes two people to produce a child. God wanted his children to be raised by two people one male and one female.Otherwise humans probably would be able to reproduce naturally without a partner. When you are raising a child you need the help of another adult, along with the help of God.

When you are responsible and you are married and you put God first. The decisions you make will more likely have a positive outcome You and your partner will probably be able to live up to your responsibility, of raising the child that you produce through a loving and long lasting relationship. Children need to see that their parents love each other.It helps them develope more loving relationships in their own lives. Parents deserve each others support to raise a child. Raising children is not easy emotionally, financially, socially, or in any other way. Adults should be responsibile for their actions that is what is supposed to make an adult an adult. Their children should in no way have to suffer for an immature adults decision to have unprotected sex.

Sexually transmitted Diseases cause emotional distress for at least two people and most likely more.Some of the diseases can be treated easily and go away. The possibility of contracting one of the more serious diseases should cause adults to think twice, but it does not.These diseases change the quality of life. This is a very serious issue.It is time for people to take it more seriously.

Consider your sexual behaviors and habits and make mature decisions. Take into account everyone involved and weigh the consequences and become responsible for your actions.When you love yourself you should realize the importance of making mature decisions. You will have to live with yourself forever. Whether you do the right things or not.When you neglect your children it will come back to you some way or the other.

The complications will be minimized when you decide to have safe sex.You can use birth control.There are many forms, including birth control pills,morning after pill, Depro shot,Nuvo IUDs etc..They can be long term or temporary. Depending on your relationship status there are many options.Relationship style run from multiple sex partners to monogamous relationships.You may have frequent sexual encounters or, just an encounter now and then.You should be able to determine what your needs are.Your health care provider should be able to assist you with those decisions. When you want to protect yourself from disease use a condom, or better yet find a partner you can trust. Then both of you get tested and become a monogamous couple.You could even get married.

Consider this: A moment of pleasure can lead to a lifetime of responsibility or a lifetime of irresponsibility. Is it worth it?